Do certain questions about life plague you? Questions such as, ‘Where is the life I have lost while trying to live?’ ‘Why do I seek knowledge, but have no wisdom?’ ‘Why do I search for pleasure, but have no joy?’ ‘Why do I look for happiness, but have no satisfaction?’ ‘And why, as a truck driver, do I work so hard to make a living, but have no life?’ There are answers to questions such as these. Let us help you find them. Comment here.
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Most tractor trailers today must weigh beneath eighty-thousand pounds. The front tires on the tractor must not weigh over twelve-thousand pounds and the two back tires must not weigh more than thirty-four thousand pounds. Just like these trucks, we, too, must have an even balance in our lives to function properly. Do you sense that something is off-kilter in your life? Give us a call. Comment here.
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It’s the time of year when outdoor activities, such as planting a garden or cleaning and polishing your rims and tanks, begin again. For some of us, along with these activities and chores, comes back pain. Or maybe you have an emotional ache that creeps up on you. This kind of pain can come at any time of the year and isn’t subject to working outdoors. Have a plan, or remedy if you will, when these times come. Are you prepared? Comment here.
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Do you remember the cartoon strip Mutt and Jeff? One day half-pint Jeff says to giant Mutt, “I heard you say that you are a self-made man.” Mutt, looking down his rather large nose, replies, “Yes I am.” Jeff says, “Why then did you make yourself look like that?” Some drivers believe they are self made men and proudly put on a macho façade. They really come off as self-centered and closed-minded. My question is, “Why would anyone want to look like that?”
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No blog will be posted tomorrow Friday, April 2, 2010 in order to allow our employees to spend time with their families. We will resume blog posting on Monday, April 5, 2010. Drivers Wellness hopes you have a wonderful Easter.
We see signs of it in truck stops and in stores where we deliver. Easter Lilies, chocolate bunnies, and egg coloring kits. As a kid, I remember hunting for colored eggs in our backyard on Easter Sunday. That’s what we did for Easter. What does Easter mean to you? Comment here.
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Our physical health is influenced by the food we eat. Each and every bite we take is either used as fuel or stored as fat in our bodies. That’s why health professionals raise awareness of what foods will make the biggest difference in the quality of life. Our minds are the same way. Each and every thought we let in is either used for good or bad. We need to become aware of how we think and channel our thoughts towards affirming, positive and loving directions. We can increase the quality of our life by actively changing how we think. Tell us what you think. Comment here.
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A wise friend once shared this, “As humans, we are all self conscience about our brokenness and lack of wholeness. We are also aware of our inability to cope with life. We know how powerless we are to control our bad habits, all of our daily temptations, our addictions, and the things we say and do to hurt the ones we love. We put up a big façade and pretend that we are in control and there is nothing wrong with us. But underneath it all, we are hurting, full of shame, guilt, and running scared.” Can you relate to this statement? Give us a call if you answered yes. Comment here.
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My parents are approaching a milestone anniversary – their 50th! That’s a major accomplishment for any couple. Already, the entire family is working on the special celebration plans. What plans are you making in order to reach this milestone in your marriage? Have you set some goals or created a plan to make sure you marriage will last? If not, think about establishing some goals. As drivers, we have to work extra hard to make sure our marriages last. Tell us what plans you’ve made. Comment here.
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I have noticed that drivers tend to reward themselves for good behavior and achievements with food - junk food that is. This can also be a way to cope with stress. There are better ways to deal with stress. You could spend time doing a hobby, walk the parking lot, take a few deep breaths or just read. Let us know if you need more resources. Comment here.
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In almost every efficient trucking company, there are several roles involved: an owner, an operations manager, a dispatcher, customer service representatives, customers, and of course drivers. If anything is missing, the company will not function well. The same applies to you as a person. There are many different “ingredients” that are needed for you to function well. Do you feel something is missing? Not sure what? Give us a call. Comment here.
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Have you ever met someone who spouts off everything they know or think they know? They tend to monopolize the conversation and might even have their facts wrong. Knowledge is merely awareness of information, however wisdom knows when and with whom to share it. Next time you want to share all you know about any given subject, consider if it’s wise to do so first. Mark Twain once said, “It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.”Comment here.
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Along with the wonderful spring weather comes baseball season. If you like to play baseball or softball, then you are also familiar with the sprains and strains that come with it. Did you know that you can still get sprains and strains when climbing in and out of your truck or trailer? There a different ways of treating them too. Sometimes using heat, ice or alternating with both is needed depending on the type of injury you have.
However, heat and ice aren’t really options when it comes to matters of an aching heart. How do you handle heart sprains or strains? We all have them. Doesn’t it make sense to have a healthy remedy close at hand for when they occur? We can help. Comment here.
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Often, I run into drivers that struggle with recurring headaches. It seems fairly common in the industry. In fact, most drivers keep aspirin, ibuprofen or something else that works for them in their trucks. Taking pills is a reactive type of health care. Have you ever thought about being proactive instead? In other words, learn how manage the stress that causes your headache before you get one. Even something as simple as drinking plenty of water can reduce headaches. Look for alternative ways to help you avoid the pain of stress. Let us give you some ideas. Comment here.
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According to the Wellness Councils of America, the number one self-treated problem in the U.S. was the common cold and flu. I imagine most Americans already have over the counter medicine available at home so we can take care of ourselves at a moment’s notice if we feel a cold coming on.
Probably all of us experience minor depression when things just don’t seem right. Have you ever thought about being ready to care for yourself if you feel depression coming on? Is there someone you can talk to, a book you can read or music you can listen to that will help you get out of that funk? Give us a call and let us recommend a treatment plan for you! Comment here.
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If you have friends or family then you will have conflict. It’s normal. The tricky part is how you deal with it. The next time you have an issue with someone, here are some tips that will bring a positive outcome: If it’s bothering you, don’t wait for the other person to bring it up; take the initiative to work through it. Find a good time and place to talk in person. Talk only about the issue; don’t get sidetracked with other past issues. Most importantly, make sure your motive is to clear the air and restore the relationship. Is there someone you need to talk to? Easier said than done? We can help. Comment here.
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On this blog, our goal is to help you with emotional wellness. What does that mean? Synonyms for wellness include words like whole, complete and healthy. If you look for the opposite meaning you’ll find words like partial, incomplete and sick. Another word with opposite meaning that really summed it up for me was broken. One first step towards becoming emotionally well is to find out what is broken. Is there anything like that in your life? Let’s talk about it. Comment here.
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Drivers often speak of their appreciation of highway scenery. Soon the snow will be gone and the hillsides will become green again for spring. What a pleasure it will be to see the lush land that we live in. Have you ever wondered where all of this beauty came from? Tell us what you think. Comment here.
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Driver, have you ever been at your wits end and all you wanted was comfort? I’ve been there. Sometimes it seems like there’s one to turn to for help. Life on the road can be lonely. It can feel even lonelier when there’s a problem at home and you can’t be there to help. You’re caught between a rock and a hard place. We can help. Give us a call. Comment here.
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I was recently inspired by my daughter. Her coach criticized her intensely. It would have been easy to stay angry, yet she overcame a tough situation with a positive attitude and team spirit on game day. Her approach even helped me to have a better attitude.
What or who inspires you when you are in a tough situation? It isn’t always easy to do the right thing. Look around today and notice what motivates you in good ways. If you’re still feeling uninspired, give us a call. We’d love to talk with you about it.Comment here.
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I recently celebrated a wedding anniversary after many great years being married to the same woman. It was great to reflect back on one of the most beautiful days of my life. Much has changed since that day. Our kids aren’t kids any more, we’ve moved from the original home we bought together and I no longer work for the same place I did back then. One thing that hasn’t changed is the love I have for my wife. In fact, it’s only grown. How are your marriage memories? If you are struggling with it, contact us. We’d love to help. Comment here.
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Fyodor Dostoevsky once said, “Man only likes to count his troubles, but he does not count his joys?” Dostoevsky’s statement reveals an understanding of the human mindset. Joy is really an attitude. It’s as hard to describe as the wind –even though we cannot see it we still know it’s there. Think about the following situations:
Joy happens when you finally get together with your loved one after being separated for a long time even if you’ve had disagreements in the past.
Joy occurs when someone who has come close to death in the line of duty returns to their loved ones. No one is happy that they nearly died, but they are filled with joy over being reunited.
Spend time counting your joys. It will enable you to overcome any negative circumstance in life. Not experiencing any joy lately? Give us a call. Comment here.
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Every anniversary, my father-in-law jokingly shares how long he’s been married in the following fashion, “We’ve been married for forty-four good years – forty-three for her and one for me!” Rest assured that’s just his sense of humor talking, which is something I really enjoy about him. For some of you, what he said only in jest is actually the situation you’re in. There are ways to make your marriage worth keeping. Don’t let another year of marriage go by without working on it. Let us know how we can help. Comment here.
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Bad habits, while easy to make, are extremely hard to break. Certainly, we all have at least one bad habit such as nail biting, smoking, swearing or interrupting others. Did you know that a good habit takes more time to form than a bad one? On average, it takes at least twenty-one days. If you’re trying to break a bad habit try replacing it with a good one. Chew gum next time you want to smoke or listen to some calming music instead of griping about your day. Give us a call. We’d be happy to help you come up with a game plan to break your bad habit. Comment here.
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When I was young, I often thought that my dad was too hard on me. When I compared my life to those of my friends, I resented him even more. Now I realize that without those hard lessons, I would not be equipped for the real trials of life. I raised my own children in a similar way because I shared the same goal with my Dad; to raise independent adults who can handle life’s problems. Today, I look back on those hard times and I am thankful. I’ve learned the truth of that saying, “What doesn’t kill you, will make you stronger.”
What hard lessons are you grateful for today? Are you passing those lessons on to your kids? Comment here.
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There are three elements involved in recovering from addictive behaviors: your body, thoughts, and feelings. The body is the channel in which recovery will take place. It must be healthy. Your thoughts need to be focused on truth. Take responsibility for your thoughts and don’t entertain lies or misunderstanding. Your body and your thoughts contribute to how you feel. Feelings or emotions are nothing more than indicators or barometers that reveal your health and thought life. They are also evidence of your personal beliefs. All three areas set the stage for your actions. If you learn how to put them in order, your recovery will be well in hand. Comment here.
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Have you ever noticed when things go bad how easy it is to focus on only the negative aspect of your situation? Even though we really have much to be thankful for, we tend to hyper focus the bad things that happen instead. In some ways, we are a lot like buckets. If I dwell on the things that go bad, the disappointments of life or on nursing grudges against those who have wronged me, then I hold or add those things in my “bucket”. When I need to pour out my bucket to those around me, guess what will come out? Nothing good, that’s for sure. Besides the things we kept from our upbringing, we are the sum of what we add to our life.
How about focusing on the blessings you have or the good things that happen to you instead? Soon, you’ll have a bucket full of happiness that will refresh not only yourself but also those around you. Comment here.
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I recently attended a family wedding being held out of town. My wife and I arrived a few days early in order to help with the rehearsal dinner and the wedding day activities. I really enjoyed watching the enthusiasm the young couple had. They shared with us their newly purchased home and future plans. They were filled with excitement.
I thought back to the days before my marriage began and wondered, “Where did the excitement go?” Oh, I still have a great marriage. But I’m not as excited about it as these two were. How do you keep the excitement in your marriage while you’re out on the road? Let us know. Comment here.
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As a deer hunter, I like to set up my blind near a frequently used food source long before I go hunting there. I want the deer to feel secure so I can catch them off guard. Often when they come down the very same path I used they’ll sense something isn’t quite right. They sniff the air or put their head down as if to eat, only to jerk it back up suddenly in hopes of catching predator movement. Other times, they stomp their front hoof to see if they can get the predator to blow his cover. Once in a while, a wise deer will raise its tail because it senses danger and then return back up the trail to safety. More often than not, most deer give in to temptation and continue down the path to the clover field below to eat. He doesn’t know it yet, but he’s already past the point of no return. He’s come too far down the path and now there’s no way out. This is just what I’ve been waiting for.
What’s your weakness? The next time you face temptation think about what’s waiting to ambush you at the end of the path. Stay alert! We can help. Comment here.
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Driver, have you ever got caught doing the right thing the wrong way? Suppose you pulled into the city where you’re going to deliver your load and you call the plant for final directions. The plant offers to send a car out to lead you through town to their location. So the four-wheeler comes out and leads you down a road with a “no trucks allowed” sign. You decide to follow anyway. Suddenly, your trailer snags some power lines and now you are in big trouble. You were doing the right thing the wrong way.
Even leaders and kings thousands of years ago have done the right thing the wrong way. They usually paid a price for trying to get away with it. Want to learn more? Comment here.
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A friend of mine re-married a couple of years ago. Occasionally, he calls to vent about his step daughter. Even though she’s an adult living on her own, she considers even small problems to be a catastrophe that requires parental attention. Recently, she called in tears because she was out of bottled water. She doesn’t like the taste of tap water and had a cold. So, she couldn’t go to the store herself, and she wanted my friend to make a 25 mile round trip to bring her bottled water.
How does someone with this mindset handle a real crisis when they can’t clear even the smallest of hurdles? Obviously, this young woman was raised by folks who were her friends instead of her parents. It’s your job to make sure your children are equipped to handle the real trials that come with life. What are you doing to prepare your children for their future when the “training wheels” are removed? Comment here.
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There are many reasons people drive trucks: the lifestyle, raised by a trucking family, out of necessity, the money, or independence. Some drive because they are running away from something they don’t want to face: responsibility for their marriage or family, authority figures in the law or workplace, relationships with others, or their past.
I knew a guy who was running and didn’t even know it. Someone pursued and caught him. From then on, his life straightened out and he even made a great contribution to society. Are you running? Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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When recovering from addiction, taking action must be approached carefully and thoroughly. Take time to reflect on previous experiences you’ve had that “lead” you to addiction. This will help you realize what went right and what went wrong. Then talk through each and every possible situation that might tempt you to use your addiction again. Listen to the responses of those who are helping you as they will most likely see your stressor points. Then clarify and solidify how you are going to act next time you encounter that scenario. Develop steps that will help you avoid the stressors. While all of this takes time, the results will be worth it. Call us if you want some help. Comment here.
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I’ve met drivers who were self-centered and care only for themselves. Then on the other hand, I’ve met drivers who are generous and helpful, to the point of buying meals for people who seem to be down on their luck. They are understanding, pleasant to be around and a joy to talk to.
Which one are you? Do you tend to be self-centered or understanding? How do you treat your fellow drivers or your family? Let’s talk about it. Comment here.
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Driver, have you ever cheated on your wife? While you are on the road, there is every opportunity and enticement to stray. Sometimes you may feel especially vulnerable when you are lonely and there seems to be no one to talk to. Suddenly, there she is knocking on your door. In a weak moment, you do the unthinkable. Now you live with fear and guilt, hoping your wife never finds out and knowing what you did was wrong. We can help. Comment here.
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Rarely can a person recover from an addiction alone. Here are helpful hints for you and everyone involved in your recovery process. Listen well. Most of us are thinking about what we want to say next instead of truly paying attention. It takes real work to listen. Evaluate your progress and let others do the same. Together, identify new goals, make a plan to reach those goals, talk about how to put the plan in place and which strengths you have that will help you completely recover. All of these ideas will greatly increase your success. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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Every one of our difficulties, trials and sufferings can be handled with a teachable attitude. Why do I say this? Because I believe every problem we face is an opportunity to learn something we didn’t know before. Sure, it doesn’t make it any easier, but it gives our circumstances purpose.
The things we learn from trying times can become the strength that someone else will need in the future. Ultimately, our problems will help us and the others we meet if we are teachable. Be encouraged today. Comment here.
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Have you ever felt that life is dragging you down? Do you want a new one? All of us have probably wished we could sweep out the old and get a fresh start. It is good to “clean house” once in awhile. Have you noticed that the benefits of turning over a new leaf only last a little while? Eventually, little by little we go back to the way we were before. Have you ever wondered why that happens?
If you still respond to things they way you did before you cleaned house, nothing has really changed. In order to have lasting improvement, you must change. Let’s talk about. Comment here.
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Has your boss or dispatcher ever given you instructions that you didn’t like? Suppose you were asked to pick up a load in California to be delivered to New York. But you don’t like going to New York, so you dropped the load off at their plant in Toledo. Then when you called in, you told the dispatcher that the load was at another plant within the company which does daily deliveries to New York so you saved him a bunch of miles. How much longer would you be driving for your company? Not much longer, right?
Being diligent to follow orders really does make a difference. Let’s talk about it. Comment here.
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Driver, have you ever heard the saying, "It's all relative?" This is in reference to the concept that what is truth to me, may not be truth to you. In fact, I could believe in something diametrically opposite to what you believe, but that's ok. As long as we hold to our belief, right?
Actually, the whole concept that truth is relative is absurd. There is absolute truth and no amount of believing it differently will change it. Here's an example: One day, a driver was traveling from Chicago, Illinois to Grand Rapids, Michigan. The entire trip, he believed he was on tghe road to Grand Rapids. That was his truth. However, he wound up in Toledo, Ohio instead. This example illustrates that absolute truths do exsit, no matter what you believe about it. Want to hear more? Comment here.
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Change is never easy, and for some of us it’s almost impossible. Remember the phrase, “Many hands make light work?” That applies to change too. You don’t need to carry the entire burden of change alone. There are many resources available to help for practically any situation you are facing: anger, depression, sexual abuse, domestic violence, alcohol or substance abuse, gambling, sexual addictions, legal issues and many, many more. Let us know if we can point you in the right direction. Comment here.
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One of my favorite photographs was of a young boy walking behind his father in the snow. The child was using his father’s footprints as his guide by following in his footsteps. Whether we like to admit it or not, we have been trained by someone else’s ‘footsteps’. Maybe it was your mother, father or your grandparents or even someone else. Bottom line, someone was an example that you followed in your life. Did you know that you are also an example for others? What kind of footprints are you leaving behind? Comment here.
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I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “You can’t judge a book by its cover.” Even though this may be true, sometimes you can get a pretty good idea. Especially when it comes to recovering from addictive behaviors, your choices will reveal whether or not you have made a fresh start. Number one is your relationships; who are they with and where do they take place? Number two; are you holding yourself accountable to someone who will tell you the truth about your progress? Number three; who’s encouraging you in this journey? Finally number four; what are you using as a resource? We can help you with all of these issues. Comment here.
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When I was young, my older brother used to say; “Mind your own business” whenever I asked him what he was doing. Not real original, but effective. He did not want to be bothered. As adults, we have both come to the realization that he was wrong. Now, we share with each other our burdens, problems and joys. We have both realized that we need to walk alongside each other. Who walks along with you? Who are you there for? Comment here.
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When you first enter recovery, recognizing the “source” of your problem is very important. If you conclude that someone else is the source of your problem and you find yourself complaining and blaming them, then your potential for enjoying a fresh start will be limited. If you conclude that you are the source, then you know that some things about you need to change. You need to be ready to embrace that change. Either way, take ownership of your own life and get help if you need it. Give us a call. Comment here.
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Once in awhile, there is news about a sports figure that disappoints and surprises us. The latest is a golfer that I thought was pristine. By that I mean, I thought he was setting an example for kids to follow. You probably did too. Now we find that isn’t the case. He is only human, of course, and we cannot expect perfection out of any human. Some people justify their shortcomings by comparing themselves to someone else. However, even though we put on a good appearance and others think well of us, we all know that we just don’t measure up. We can help. Want to talk about? Comment here.
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Ever heard the term “trip planning”? Most companies suggest that you plan each and every one of your loads you pick up. Just like trip planning, in order to make changes in your life, you must “goal set”. When you set these goals, make sure they are realistic and specific. Make sure they are measurable, and are broken down into specific action steps. Also, make sure you know the resources you’ll need to accomplish each step. Finally, make the commitment and keep the perspective that it’s a journey and there will be stops along the way. Let us know if we can help.Comment here.
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When I was a boy, I heard a story about an older married couple. One day, as they were driving down the road, the wife looked across the seat at her husband. With a look of sadness she asked, “Do you remember how we were when we were young?” The husband smiled and said he did. The wife closed her eyes and leaned her head against the passenger window. Smiling, she told him how much she’d liked it when he drove with one hand on the wheel and the other arm wrapped around her shoulders. They sat in silence, each smiling at the memory. Finally the wife asked, “Why did you stop?” The husband looked at her across the seat and said, “I’m still right here where I’ve always been. Why did you move?”
Do you have someone in your life that has moved away from you? Or maybe you’ve done the moving? Give us a call to talk about it. Comment here.
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There are several different ways of handling the suffering we see in life: One is to run away or flee the situation. Another is to deny, cover up or bury it. Still another is to have compassion or care about the people affected by suffering without considering the long-term implications of getting involved. Sometimes alleviating suffering should not be our only motivation.
The next time you’re faced with suffering, step back and look at the big picture before you react. Consider that suffering should not rule your life or alter your main purpose and goals. Then decide on your course of action. This will ensure that your response will fit your life purpose while still helping those in need. Comment here.
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Hey driver, have you ever been caught between a rock and a hard place? Maybe you’re there right now. I once talked to a driver who was ready to give his tractor to anyone who wanted it. He’d been driving a tractor that someone gave him and things were going really well, until it broke down. The repair estimate was more than he had. The situation seemed impossible to him. But while we were visiting, he received a call from the shop. Turned out, it was just a clogged fuel filter and the repair would be a fraction of the cost. He had the money for that. Soon, he was back on the road.
I’ve heard similar stories from others, too. Of course, there are times when the problems don’t get solved so easily. But sometimes when we get into a jam that we believe is impossible, that’s just when a miracle occurs. Tell us your story. Comment here.
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Is there more to life than driving a truck? I have run into drivers who love it, drivers who want out of it and those who do it because it’s the only thing they feel they can do. There are still others who ask if this is all to life? They are looking for fulfillment.
I’ve met drivers who ran into a religious person who gave them a list of do’s and don’ts. By religious, I mean people who believe it’s possible to reach God through their own efforts, good deeds or by creating good karma. However, sometimes now matter how much good you do, bad things still happen. Religion like that is unfulfilling because it’s man’s invention and doesn’t answer life’s more painful questions. However, there is a better way to find fulfillment. Contact us to learn more. Comment here.
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Driver, have you looked at porn? Many claim that porn is victimless and is a freedom of choice issue. However, lives have been ruined because of it; both by those who use it and those who create it. Porn is a progressive addiction; what satisfied yesterday, is not good enough today. Many, who would never visit a prostitute, have done so because of their porn addiction. Not only will you lose money, but you can lose your life if you get a sexually transmitted disease from the encounter.
The word pornography comes from the Greek language and means “a written or illustrated description of prostitutes or prostitution.” Nudie pictures are based on a fantasy designed solely to get your money. The images are not even real. However, it creates unrealistic expectations within a marriage. A man begins to expect things from his wife that she cannot not do. The irony is that people use porn because they want sexual intimacy, but they end up frustrated and separated from normal healthy relationships because of these “side effects”. It is a downward spiral that will ruin you and your marriage. Get help before it’s too late. Contact us. Comment here.
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A helpful took I’ve used to overcome life’s challenges is a simple three step approach. Step one - completely assess your circumstances or situation. Step two – develop the goals you want to achieve because of the circumstances and a plan to achieve them. Remember to think both long and short term for this step. Step three - implement the plan. I find doing these steps help me to stay organized and able to manage the growth that is needed.
Another helpful tool is to have someone who is close to you evaluate the effectiveness of your plan. They can help monitor your progress and keep you focused on the changes you need to make. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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Remember the story about the Three Little Pigs? Do you recall the moral of the story? The foundation your life is built on will make all the difference when it comes to success, achieving major growth and overcoming life’s struggles.
Just like the pig whose house didn’t fall down, you must have a secure base to build on. Knowing your foundation is secure will help you feel safe. You also need complete understanding of what needs to take place in order to achieve your goals. You also need to be prepared for growth and change. Want to know how to get started? Give us a call. Comment here.
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Recovery is never easy. There are a couple of motivations that can either help or hurt the process. A good motivator is humility or teachability. If we approach our situation with an attitude of being teachable, we will expedite the process. However, if you enter recovery with an attitude of anger, you won’t get very far. Another motivator that isn’t helpful is rehearsal or pretense. The recovery process is not a play that you can act your way through. Instead, a more helpful motivator is sincerity or honesty. Being honest about what you’re struggling with will help those working with you in your recovery. Call us if we can help. Comment here.
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How do you respond to suffering? Before you answer, here are a few things you should consider. Suffering is. This means that it exists and always will regardless of your actions in life. Suffering seems unjust and is universal and inescapable. However, we cannot respond passively.
Now that you think about these things, let me ask you again. How do you respond to suffering? Let’s talk about it. Comment here.
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In the service, when orders didn't make sense we'd say, "Ours is not to reason why, ours is but to do or die." The meaning of this expression was simple. Even if the orders seemed goofy, we still had to carry them out.
Ever had your dispatcher give you orders that don’t make sense? Orders like “pass by Buffalo before going to Cleveland” when you picked up your load in Toledo to deliver in Cleveland. It seems like a long way off route to get to Cleveland and a waste of time and resources. But sometimes either the dispatcher or the owner has a purpose in asking this that we don’t see or know anything about. They may be viewing the situation from another vantage point. Tell us about the times when experienced this. What did you learn? Comment here.
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Loneliness is one of the most difficult parts of being a trucker. You’re alone and miles from home. There are good ways to escape the feelings of loneliness. Notice the scenery while you’re on the road; sunrise, sunset, mountains, lakes, rivers and even the beauty of the ribbon of highway as it stretches ahead of you or behind you. Nature’s beauty and bounty can fill your mind and heart and lift your spirits. At the end of your day, if the feelings of loneliness return, call someone to share the beauty of your day with and ask them about the beauty in theirs. It will fill your time with something encouraging. No one to call, you say? That’s where we come in. Give us a ring. Comment here.
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Kindness is a lost attribute in our society today. In regards to your family, we should show true kindness in all situations. This means that we avoid harshness and being punitive with our children during the discipline times. Yelling at your spouse or kids will get you nowhere fast (trust me, I know). Learn to show kindness in your voice, actions and words in both good and bad times. Doing this will pay rich dividends to you later in life. Give us a call. We’re here to help you learn more about kindness today. Comment here.
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You’ve probably heard the expression “All roads lead to Rome”, right? Well, it generally means that any path will lead you to the same destination. However this is certainly NOT the case with managing difficulties while living on the road. There is no single or best way to address the struggles we experience. But, there is one method to help you through those times that does really seem to help; Building relationships with those who love and care about you enough to listen to and spend the time necessary to help you work through personal problems. Who do you turn to for that kind of support? Are you that kind of person for the people in your life? Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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If you have ever gotten help or counseling for an addiction issue, then you are what’s called a “care seeker”. Whether it was “self-inflicted” or you were forced into getting help by someone else, it probably was for the best. There are two types of care seekers; optimistic and pessimistic. If you’re optimistic, recovery goes much faster because you hold on to this mindset. However, if your pessimistic, it will take longer to recover simply for the mere fact that you don’t really believe recovery is possible. Driver, if you are seeking help, be optimistic about the outcome. It will make the entire process a lot better for you. Need help? Comment here.
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Do you feel that suffering is unreasonable, unjust, or irrational? It would be very easy to explain it in this manner, but the truth is we don’t always know why there is suffering. Just like it is easy to say that bad choices always lead to bad consequences, or bad consequences are the result of bad choices. However, this too is not always true. Instead, we need to approach our suffering with humility while holding on to something that is solid and secure. What or who do you hold on to? Comment here.
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Last year on New Year’s Day, while stopping at the truck stop to fuel up, a TV crew came up to me and asked that question. Now, I ask you the same question: What do you expect in the New Year? Do you hope for more miles this year than last year? Maybe you are working for a new company and are looking for more regular home times.
Have you ever thought about how this relates to your lifestyle? What kind of character are you developing in this New Year? Is integrity or honesty part of it? When we die, we all leave a legacy behind, whether good or bad. What kind of legacy would you leave behind if you died this year? Do some changes need to be made? We can help. Comment here.
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Life on the road can become long and difficult at times. Sometimes it’s hard to get through it. But if you desire to move through it successfully, manage your circumstances better than before, or have more meaningful, fulfilling relationships, then you’re in the right spot. Albert Einstein once said “If you want different results, do not do the same things.” The first step to changing your life is to do something different than what you’ve done before. Let us know how we can help. Comment here.
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Do you find real joy in your family relationships? I’m not talking about each and every day, day in and day out. Not every minute of our relationships with our spouses and children are fantastic. No, I’m talking about when you remember watching your kids grow up, seeing them mature and become adults. Or when you consider the development of your marriage relationship today from where it was a year ago. If these thoughts don’t bring you joy, then give us a call and see if we can help. Comment here.
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Have you ever found yourself needing a fresh start? Some people refer to this process as recovery. If you’re looking for help for your recovery, there are a few standards that you should find in those offering you that help. The first thing is love. Make sure whoever is helping you does everything in love. The second thing is truth or wisdom. Sometimes, the information they offer might hurt your feelings, but it’s for your own good. Third, make sure that hope is planted deeply in your fresh start. Hold firmly to the hope that things will change. Lastly, have faith that you can restart and have a better life. Need help? Comment here.
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The structure and teamwork displayed in football simply amazes me. Some say “The best offense is a good defense.” It’s sure exciting to see a defensive lineman recover a fumble and run it in for a touchdown. However, this type of action is not the goal for a defensive player. Their objective is to guard their territory and prevent the other team from advancing.
In marriage, a good defense does not make a good offense. The next time you find yourself in a struggle, don’t try to be a defensive player and guard your territory. Instead, be a good offensive player by working together to solve the problem. Call us if we can help. Comment here.
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Buried deep within the hearts of most drivers I know is the desire to avoid the evil and suffering often found out on the road. How do we solve the suffering we face? One of the most common responses is to place the blame on others or ourselves. Let me encourage you not to try this. The truth is bad things happen regardless of what we’ve done or who we are. The solution lies in how we respond when bad things happen. Tell us how you handle these issues. Comment here.
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NThe holidays can be a lonely time, particularly if you have lost a loved one. Recalling memories of when that loved one was there may lead to feeling lonely. Especially when you realize that Christmas will never be the same. Maybe you feel lonely at holiday time simply because you have no one to share your time with or your company has you far away from home and family. Whatever the reason, there is a solution to loneliness. Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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Recent scientific studies reveal that stress generally does not cause mental or physical illness. However, the same studies show that it does worsen these conditions. There is also a growing body of evidence that indicates stress contributes to substance abuse and some eating disorders.
Even if it does not cause illness, stress can make us short tempered, disagreeable, and abusive. Unfortunately, it’s an equal opportunity “employer”. Most of the people faced with stress producing situations, find it hard to cope. How are you handling it? Does it depress you? Don’t let it get to this point. Call us today. Comment here.
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Do you love your spouse? Can I ask you how you love them? There are three types of love. The first type is called agape which means to love someone unconditionally. No matter what you choose to love someone anyway. In other words, your love is not dependant on how they act or what they have done. The second type is called Philia for friendship. The third type is Eros, the root word for erotic. I shouldn’t have to explain that one to anyone! So let me ask you again, do you love your spouse and with what kind of love? Comment here.
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Driver, do you remember how the holidays were when you were a kid? When I was a kid, I wanted an electric train set. However, my mother was afraid I would electrocute myself, so I never got one.
Christmas is a busy time. There are gifts to buy and wrap, decorations to put up, and parties to go to. It’s a fun merry-go-round. Or is it? Is there more to Christmas than gifts, trees, tinsel, fat men in red suits, and parties? Has the merry-go-round gotten old? If this is all Christmas has meant to you so far, you’ve been missing the best part. Would you like to know more? Comment here.
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Who is showing interest in your family? If it’s not you the local drug dealers, predators on the internet and many others will show interest in them. They will devote their time to your kids if you don’t. You should be the one that shows the most interest in your kids. Our family members must be on the forefront of our minds and hearts each and every day. Now I know that this is very difficult for truck drivers. However, you can show interest by simply calling every day, or by sending flowers once a week, or by sending post cards from where you drive. The time and money involved are well worth it, guys! Share with us how you showing interest in your family while you’re on the road. Comment here.
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Sometimes the challenges we face each and every day seem like climbing a mountain. Even with a strong and reliable life line, the responsibility to find handholds and footholds and climb to the top is ours. I’ve learned that most of what we worry about does not happen. Just like a steep, granite cliff, it can be a barrier to a better life. That’s because worry is wasted energy that prevent us from focusing our creativity and positive efforts on what’s right in front of us.
Lifelines can help us overcome worry. Knowing there is support in case we fall can help us move beyond what might happen to focus on what is happening. Who is your lifeline? Who do you call for help? Comment here.
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Recently, as I listened to a discussion between a man and his wife, I thought about the makeup of men and women. Men are naturally right-brained. Distinctions of being right-brained are remembering things we see and do, as well as putting bits of information together to understand the big picture. Women on the other hand are primarily left-brained. Some of those traits are understanding and using language (listening, reading, speaking and writing), a memory for spoken and written messages, and a detailed analysis of all the information.
Now that you know this, what should you do with it? How about using that knowledge to help you communicate effectively in your marriage? Sometimes, there are exceptions to these traits. So, get to know how your spouse thinks. Then, learn to communicate to her using the way she thinks. You won’t regret it. Comment here.
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When I was a boy, I lived in a small town and walked to school about six blocks from home. One day on the way home, I walked by the local garage and saw a mechanic with a car up on a hoist. When I got home, I saw something that I thought would be just the thing to use as my toy car hoist. Sitting on my sister’s dressing table, I saw a tube of lipstick. I put my Tootsie Toy car right on top of the lipstick and then I turned the bottom; the lipstick came out and lifted the car up just like I figured. By the time I finished, my sister’s brand new lipstick, purchased with her own money, looked like a mushroom. Needless to say, my sister failed to appreciate the neat car hoist I had made out of her lipstick!
When we are kids, we do things for immediate gratification without thinking of consequences, either to ourselves, or to others. I thought of my own needs, and never considered my sister’s. Sometimes, even as adults we still focus on our own immediate gratification. However, there are always consequences. Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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I’ve heard that life is like a roller coaster. It sometimes provides us with thrills as we are thrust up and down and from side to side. But in the end, we know what will happen. The ride will end and we will exit the roller coaster and deal with the pain from that ride. It’s very predictable. Some would say that life is like white water rafting. While it’s similar to a roller coaster there is some uncertainty on how the ride will go. In both of these examples, our ride or destiny is up to us to decide. How will you decide your destiny? Do you know your destiny? Comment here.
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Most men are motivated by respect. That’s why most soldiers will follow their general into battle even when a threat of death is possible. Men give their all and are willing to die for the cause. I commend drivers that have served in our armed forces. Let me give you another situation that I’d love to see the same respect. That is our marriages. Most men are willing to die for their country, but how about your wife? When was the last time you let your personal wants and needs “die” in order to love your wife? This is the type of devotion we should have for our mates. If we’re consistent, our wives won’t be able to do anything but respect us. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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One of the most desired goals for our families should be that each and every member possesses good character traits. At the foundation of good character lies honesty. If everyone in our household not only displays honesty, but actually uses it as a personal standard, then many of the other positive character traits will follow. Of course, it starts with us, the parents. We can’t just talk about these standards, we must live them ourselves. So Dad or Mom, if you haven’t done this already, a great place to start is with honesty. Comment here.
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What do you use as the guide for your family standards? Everyone uses something to guide them through life whether by choice or by default. It could be money, cars, the cottage, or whatever. If you haven’t chosen something yet, please pick carefully. What you choose will set the cornerstone for moral, ethical, and spiritual decisions your family members will make for the rest of their lives. Not sure what to choose? Give us a call to talk about it. Comment here.
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When a baby is born into this world, his only concern is himself. He wants his food NOW, and someone better give it to him or he will cry. As the baby gets older, the crying gets louder and degenerates into yelling and a tantrum on the floor, unless he is taught better behavior. All along, kids have to be taught to think of others. If we grow up into adulthood and have never been so taught, then we go about only looking out for “No. 1”. When adults think of others instead of No. 1, we all get along much better. What do you think? Comment here.
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I was once taught that there are two major things in a marriage that will either make or break it: love and respect. Have you ever heard of Aretha Franklin’s song R-E-S-P-E-C-T or the one done by the Beetles, All You need is Love? Ironically, while both of these are true, men are the ones that need respect, and women are the ones that need love. It’s how we’re wired. So the next time you encounter a challenge in your marriage relationship, give one of these a try. They work! Comment here.
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Once, when I was ten or eleven years old I thought I could put an end to being spanked. My mom was probably five feet tall, but she had twelve kids and plenty of spanking experience. Nevertheless, I jerked the stick out of her hand and broke it over my knee. I thought she would be powerless to do anything about it. WRONGGG! And I thought she was angry before! She had a closet full of hangers. She just got another, and gave me the walloping I deserved.
How do you react to life’s spankings? Do you try to control the one who’s doing the “spanking”? Have you ever tried just being quiet and listening to what’s being said first? How about agreeing with the person on the parts they get right? Then, maybe responding with calm respect and apologizing where needed. It just might work out better than the childish behavior I exhibited above. Give it a shot. Comment here.
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The majority of us prefer predictability. We naturally feel more secure when we know what lies ahead. This is part of being human and it is why we watch the weather, and the evening news. There is comfort in knowing if it will rain or shine the following day. But the need for predictability can never be satisfied. Even though we take in as much information as we can, uncertainty is inevitable. Just as the notion that life is unfair, so true is the fact that life is full of uncertainties. If you’re uncertain about your future, give us a call. Comment here.
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Ever wonder why you are not better than you are? Many times it is not from lack of trying. The truth is that we cannot be our best on our own power. Suppose you are trying to quit cussing. You can go along for awhile and do pretty well, until something catches you off guard, and the air turns blue. Then there’s that matter of an honest log book. Need I say more? We can never be at our best without help. There is a way. Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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If you have children, there are a lot of outside influences competing for their devotion and attention. Even if your kids spend time a great deal of time at other places like school, sports activities, church youth group or going to the mall with their friends, their family should be the center and primary influence in their lives. Think of it like the solar system. At the center is the sun (family) and the planets are all the other things in their lives that circle around them. Make sure your family is at the center of their lives. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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As a kid, there was a time when I got spanked every day. One day, I determined not to do anything to irritate my mom and get spanked. Things went o.k. in the morning, but then something happened and I blew it. I don’t remember what I did now, but I know that I had it coming when I did it. Well, you get the picture.
Do you try to please people so that you don’t “get in trouble?” Do you worry that you won’t be accepted if you were honest about whom you really are? If so, you may be a people pleaser. That usually never works out well in the end. Being overly concerned with what other people think of you is a manipulative and crippling attitude. Start taking steps today to be honest with others. It might not be as bad as you think. Comment here.
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There are times when our job, boss, spouse, kids and life get on our nerves. Please don’t respond in anger or frustration. Instead, take a few minutes for yourself. Find a quiet place to contemplate the situation. Think about where you are and where you want to be. Then make a step by step plan which will allow you to achieve your goals. Keep in mind that immediate results are not likely, but if you stick to the plan eventually things will improve. Need a plan? Let us help. Comment here.
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Someone once told me that the definition of “crazy” is doing the same thing over and over and expecting to get a different result. This holds true in a struggling marriage. The argument topics may change, but our reactions stay the same day after day, month after month, and year after year. Next time you get into an argument, why don’t you try reacting in a different way? For example, guys, act in a loving manner toward your wife and ladies, act in a respectful manner toward your husband. Then watch what happens. Comment here.
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We will be closed on Thursday, November 26 and Friday, November 27, 2009 to allow our employees time to be with their familes. We will resume the Drivers Wellness blog on Monday, November 20, 2009.
Happy Thanksgiving
The holidays are approaching. Everywhere I go, I see decorations going up. When I was a kid learning about the holidays at school, we heard stories about the hardships the Pilgrims endured the first winter in America. They survived because of the compassion of Native Americans who taught them to plant corn and celebrated the harvest with a Thanksgiving feast.
In this down economy, with drivers losing jobs and trucking firms closing up sometimes it’s easier to complain. However, I have not seen a mass exodus of people leaving this country to go somewhere better. This is still a pretty good place to live. Find time to appreciate what we have and the bounty of provision given to us this Thanksgiving. Comment here.
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I once heard a speaker explain why so many have marital difficulties. He stated that somewhere within the marriage there was a lack of love on the husband’s part or a lack of respect on the wife’s part. This started a vicious cycle that we can’t break out of. You see, without love, a wife’s reaction to her husband will be lacking in respect. And when a husband gets treated without respect, he will react without love to his wife. See the cycle? Stop it! Become proactive and respond to your mate with what they need. Try it. It works well. Comment here.
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What do you expect from your family? Do you expect perfection? Perfection will leave you dissatisfied with their performance which will only lead to other issues. Let me encourage you to strive towards what is best for your family instead of what’s perfect. The best will lead you toward caring in specific ways for each individual in your family. This will allow you to love them and train them in a way that will satisfy everyone. Expect the best. Comment here.
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Sometimes life isn’t fair. Like it or not, it’s reality. At times, it seems some people experience more unfairness than others. Some of us must deal with serious, chronic illness -both mental and physical. Some are saddled with difficulties, through no fault of their own, that make it very challenging to simply live. So now that we have determined life isn’t fair, what are you going to do to overcome this unfairness and have the best life you can under the circumstances? Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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Quite often, my wife and I have conversations that don’t make sense. Although I’ve listened intently, somewhere along the line, I missed something. On the other hand, when I tell my wife things I’m sure I’ve explained it thoroughly, but it gets messed up too. So, what’s the problem? Where does this go wrong? Well, I’ve come to the conclusion that men and women think and speak differently. “Really” you say, like you didn’t know this already. I have also come to the conclusion that neither one of us is right or wrong, just different. So knowing this, next time try to speak and listen to your spouse like they think and speak. It will help you to understand each other. Comment here.
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Ever have someone so upset with you that they started yelling? I have. What do you do when through no fault of yours, the load arrives late and your receiver is giving you the what for? My natural tendency is to defend myself and get louder as my verbal assailant gets louder. We both try to out-talk the other in order to get our point across. The usual result is hard feelings and maybe a lost customer. I’ve heard of drivers being barred from delivering because of contentions with the shipper. While our reaction is very natural, it’s just the wrong approach for these situations. There is a better way. Would you like to know more?Comment here.
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There is a difference between discipline and punishment when it comes to your children. Anybody can impose a punishment. It takes no leadership qualities at all to “dish” it out. Usually, we punish our kids only when we are angry at what they did. However, it takes a real man to discipline his children. Discipline should be filled with love and concern for the direction of our kid’s lives, not merely focused on our anger about the bad act they just committed. Temper your anger and discipline them correctly. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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Many drivers have told me, “Driving is the only thing I know.” I usually hear this whenever the driver feels their livelihood is going to be taken away. They feel a bit desperate. While this statement may be true for any driver, it doesn’t mean that one cannot learn something new. Maybe you can learn a new trade? Then you’d have two areas of skills to work with. It is not so much how many things we know; it is what we do with the skills we have. Want to talk about it? Contact us.Comment here.
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Loneliness is one of the emotions that attack many truck drivers. Some of the factors that cause this are spending hour after hour behind the wheel fighting traffic and other times on a long stretch of highway with only your truck for company. When you get to your destination, you are alone to deal with any problems that arise, such as the shipper not being ready for several hours, or a receiver rejecting a load. You solve all those problems and try to explain them to your employer, and it almost seems like you have to defend yourself in a court of law. You get to a truck stop to fuel up and get a meal, and the waitress just had to deal with some belligerent customer and is not in a good mood. Sounds like the end of a perfect day. But you know what? There is hope. There is something to look forward to. Contact us to find out more. Comment here.
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I would like to talk about the power of debt versus the power of saving. The key word to understand is “interest”. It can either work for you or against you (of course the preferred being for you). If you overspend by $80 each month for five years, you would have overspent by $4,800. If you charged it, in order to pay this off in five additional years at 18%, you would actually pay back a total of $7,485. That’s the power of debt. If you save $1,000 per year for twelve years, you’ll have saved $12,000. If you invest it, the same amount after the same time period would be worth $24,672 with 6% interest. That’s the power of saving. Get the idea. Start saving today. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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It’s very easy to put our own needs first in a culture that embraces “Me First” as a way of life. The result is our society is full of uncared for kids, wives, husbands and parents. We are reaping what we have sown. However, if everyone put others first by meeting their needs, we’d all be cared for.
It’s almost guaranteed that those you love will mess up or make mistakes at times and not meet your needs. It’s very important that you show them you still care for them even then. Caring for others cannot be based upon their performance alone. Express your care not only verbally, but by your actions everyday to the people in your life. Comment here.
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Today, it is much easier to find our way on the highway. There was a time when that was not the case. Roads were not well-marked, and sometimes were impassible for trucks. Even if you called the company you were going to, you’d get someone who was totally unaware of truck restrictions since they only knew the way by car. Your best source was someone who had actually been there before. Eventually, road maps and special atlases suitable for truckers were developed. Now, we have satellites encircling the globe that enable GPS technology to locate not only where we are but how to get where we want to go.
For life’s ‘highway’, there are guides to get us through without getting lost. Want to know more? Contact us. Comment here.
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We live in a noisy world. All day long, the engine hums as you tool down the highway. The radio is turned on, and the CB crackles with someone wanting to talk. The restaurants we eat in have music playing, diners chatting and sometimes the dishes clatter. I have gotten into the habit of eating my breakfast while watching the morning news on TV. The news, weather and local road conditions are repeated every ten minutes. During that time, several ads blast at least 3 decibels louder than the news broadcast. One day, I had heard enough and decided to turn it off. The silence was golden. Every day, we have good opportunities to enjoy a quiet time. Try turning the noise off and enjoy the silence. Need ideas for what you can do during quiet times? Ask us. Comment here.
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Today, couples try to live together without getting married to avoid the requirement of commitment. Doing so, however, short circuits the intimacy between them that is supposed to beautiful. The result is instability, uncertainty and chaos. Do you want to see what the real concept of marriage is? Contact us. Comment here.
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As a truck driver, being present at all of your family functions is very difficult. In fact, being present is not really what it’s all about when it comes to your family relationships. That’s because even though someone is physically present, they may be so preoccupied that it’s as if they’re “not there”, if you know what I mean. Give your family your presence by showing your interest and love for them even though you are not at home. Call them up just to find out how they are doing or to let them know that you love them. Generally speaking, your family understands why you can’t be there all the time. Your attention or presence is really what they need. Comment here.
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Do you have any financial dreams or goals? Maybe you want to get your truck paid off quickly, retire at a certain age or travel in something other than an 18 wheeler. Usually financial dreams or goals are closely related to your life. Spend some time identifying what they are. Then write them down and put together a plan to reach them. Start with getting out of debt and then begin saving cash towards your goals. You’ll be well on your way to reaching them. Call us if we can help. Comment here.
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Life is often not fair, no matter how indignant we feel about it. I know of drivers who were working faithfully for their company one moment that suddenly became stranded far from home the next. Their company, struggling financially, declared bankruptcy and abruptly closed its doors. The drivers were not only left without a job, they were left without money to get back home or the wages that they had already earned. How could that be right?
There’s an old story that discusses unfairness. All the workers were paid the same wages no matter how long they had worked that day. When the ones who were hired in the morning complained about it, the employer reminded them that they’d agreed to work for the pay that they’d received and that they were only envious because he was being generous to the new workers that were hired near the day’s end. The moral is it’s better to be content with what you have than to complain about what you don’t have. Finding reasons to be grateful when faced with unfair circumstances will help you “fair” better through them. Tell us what you think. Comment here.
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Even though computers have become faster, have you noticed that we have become more impatient. My wife turns on the computer and expects it to boot up immediately. Then she complains about our “slow” computer. Impatience shows up when we stand in line at the fuel desk (or any other line we stand in). We wonder why there is only one slow clerk available. I seldom shop at a particular store because they do not mind making customers wait! Remember the expression “Good things come to those who wait?” Impatience can give us second best and even undesired results. Sometimes it’s actually better to wait. Would you like to comment? Comment here.
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The word addiction means “to be dependent upon” or “to be held in bondage to.” Our society very clearly identifies drugs and alcohol as potentially addictive substances. I think there is one even more powerful - pornography. Some of the symptoms of this addiction are watching pay-per-view sex movies, purchasing pornographic material either on the web or in stores, frequenting nude dancing establishments and calling 900 numbers. If you have any of these symptoms, get some help immediately. Give us a call. Comment here.
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Fidelity, which means faithfulness, is a word I haven’t heard in a long time. It can be applied to marriage, your purpose in life, the company that you serve, or your relationships. I would like to talk about marriage. Today, we hear so much about couples breaking their marriage vows. The inevitable divorce will mean the emotional rending apart of husband and wife. The process is horrific and both will get hurt in the end. Children suffer the most, often feeling they are the cause of their parents’ problems. This is not the way marriage is supposed to be. Contact us. Comment here.
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Part of loving your family is accepting them for who they are. Love the members of your family unconditionally. That means regardless of what they do or don’t do, what they become or where they are headed, love them totally. Tell them you love them today. Comment here.
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We have talked about using a budget to manage your money. Before you can accomplish this correctly, you must first know the condition of your current finances. Do you know where all of your money is going? Start keeping track of every penny you spend each month. Then analyze your spending habits by asking the following question: Are there items that can be cut out of your monthly bills to reduce the overall total? Are there any unnecessary items you are buying that don’t really need? Is there a cheaper way to get the same result? You may find that you were losing money to trivial items that could help you pay off some debt or go into your savings plan. If so, make those changes and continue on from there. Don’t know where to turn? Let us help you. Comment here.
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That was the opening question a driver once put to me. As drivers, we become aware of much evil. People lie and cheat and think nothing of it. Some drivers run with two log books. People cheat on their spouses, thinking they can get away with it. And we hear of the cases where a few steal the life savings of many. Every day we hear about the bad “news”— the failure. We could feel overwhelmed and depressed over it all, especially if some of the results of evil happen to touch us personally. There is an answer to all this. We can help. Contact us. Comment here.
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I know that some four letter words are bad, but here’s a six letter word that many of you feel is terrible: budget. However using a budget accomplishes two different things. It helps us determine our financial priorities and it instills discipline to achieve those priorities. If you’re like me, you probably don’t like either one of these ideas. I promise you’ll like the results. There are a number of different budgeting plans and techniques available to choose. Pick the one that is the simplest, and works best for you. Call us if you need help with a budget today. Comment here.
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Addictions come in many different styles. In the trucking industry, the obvious ones are drugs and alcohol for which there are random monthly tests for. What about pornography? Here’s a random test for you. Do you find your wife less sexually satisfying than you used to? Do you lock your eyes on attractive women and check them out? Do you seek out arousing pictures or R or X rated movies? Do you visit porn sites on the internet? Do you have a secret sex stash you can’t revel to others? If so, you might be addicted. Give us a call, don’t wait until tomorrow. Comment here.
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When I was growing up, I played a lot of little league baseball. Every spring, I eagerly awaited the tryouts thinking of nothing else but the competition. Afterwards, we’d be picked to play on a certain team. You could be a great player but if you weren’t picked for a winning team it seemed like the end of your life. At least, it was the end of your season. I don’t play baseball like I once did, but I still have a team that means everything to me. It’s my family. Your family can make mistakes, and maybe sometimes not even show up, but they are still your team. Families just like teams need a great coach. Hey Coach, are you in the game? Comment here.
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A man marries a woman and everything is great. After some time, they begin to argue. He is gone from home weeks at a time. She never expected him to be gone all the time. It isn’t any easier for him. His kids are growing up without him. He isn’t living up to what she expected. She was never as demanding as she now is.
When frustrated, mates often become emotionally or verbally abusive toward each other. When they reach an impasse, they decide that the way to solve their problems is to divorce. WRONG. Running away may feel like opening a steam valve so the pressure can be released at first. But divorce really gives everyone involved heartbroken, torn souls and tremendous confusion especially for the innocent children involved. Instead of taking the lazy way out, get counseling and learn to solve your problems together. Marriage is a covenant between two people, “till death do us part.” There is possibly a missing element that could help you honor your covenant. Want to know more? Contact us. Comment here.
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In 1979, the company where I worked transferred me 2,000 miles to the city I’m living in now. On the “Big Moving Day”, I spoke with the driver (who owned his own rig), and found out he made $81,000 the previous year--three times what I was making! It was an eye opener for me on how well an o/o could do. He was fast, too. I had to fly in order to be at our new house when he arrived with our furniture. Well, the other side of that gilded coin is the risk taken by an o/o. I got to Ohio as scheduled, but he was a couple days late because he broke down on the way.
These days, I hear more tales of woe than easy living and I think about that driver who pushed himself so hard and always worked to have “just a little more.” I wonder what it cost him, especially with so many o/o’s struggling to make ends meet in our current economy. We can spend all our lives reaching for the gold ring and in the end, find it is made of brass. What are you reaching for? Want to talk about it? Contact us. Comment here.
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I remember watching the film “It’s a Wonderful Life,” where George, the lead character is told that he was worth more dead than alive. After contemplating the insult through a depression haze, fogged over by a couple drinks, George attempts suicide. Enter Clarence, an Angel sent to show George he is valued and loved. In the end, George realizes his life has value that is richer than all the money in the world. Driver, do you ever feel worthless like George did? The dispatcher expects you to fly low, the shipper expects you to be there when he is ready to ship, the receiver wanted it yesterday, DOT wants to inspect your log book and DOT the truck. On top of all that, you have a family back home that needs you to be there. Sometimes, the demands and expectations of others can make you feel worthless. Don’t forget that you are valuable and loved, whether you know it or not. We can help. Comment here.
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Do you have any debt? Studies show that many Americans have ten to twenty thousand dollars in consumer debt. Consumer debt comes from purchases that are consumption based versus investment based. A mortgage is considered an investment debt while credit cards, auto payments or a Snap On accounts are viewed as consumer debts. Consumer debt can weigh heavily on you and your family if not kept in check. Consider cutting your credit cards in half, stay out of shopping malls, and create a budget (and stay on it). Also the next time you feel led to make a purchase, ask yourself “Do I really need this?” Then delay the purchase for 30 days and ask yourself again. Chances are you’ll discover the answer is “No.” Call us if you need help managing your debt. Comment here.
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Small indulgences don’t seem to be very harmless on the surface, but they can become huge problems. Nude pictures here, a porn picture there, a girl here, a girl there, a billboard here, a billboard there, get the idea? Keep adding your indulgences together and you’ll soon have an addiction to pornography. Then your addiction steals your money and your life. If this rings a bell with you, give us a call. There is a way out. Comment here.
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Some years ago, I got adopted into a family. My benefactor has resources that seemed to be endless. The neat part of it is that I am receiving benefits in one way or another all the time. I don’t mean that money, grand houses and lots of stuff are raining down upon me, yet when I look around me, I have more than enough. What I’m really talking about is protection, direction, and a deep love that is not available anywhere else. My benefactor is looking to adopt others, too. Want to know more? Contact us. Comment here.
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Many drivers tell me that their log books are fairy tales. Some say it’s impossible to make money when running an honest log book. They’re not alone. Numerous surveys and studies have been done to test people on their integrity. Most people admitted that they would cheat to gain an advantage. Problem is when we tell one lie; we then have to tell another to make our stories fit. Abraham Lincoln said, “No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar.” That’s because when the lies fall apart, it’s usually with disastrous results. Whatever happened to good old honesty? It is still the best policy. Would you like to be truthful? We can help. Comment here.
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Is it ever right to be angry? How about when that four wheeler who cuts in and out of traffic without leaving you enough space, when someone in the express line ahead of you with a basket filled far above the “express limit” or whenever you see someone not playing by the rules? Are these times when it’s ok to get angry? There is such a thing as righteous anger. However, most of the time my anger does not fit that category. Righteous anger usually occurs when there is an injustice committed against someone who is not connected to me. So, if I become angry because someone offended me personally, that’s probably not righteous anger. In fact, people who get angry easily usually don’t have righteous anger. Even with righteous anger, we still must be careful with our conduct. Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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Do you have money stashed away for unplanned emergencies like unexpected hospital bills, new car tires, your children’s college fund, your retirement? One way to get ahead financially is to save a little money from every paycheck to cover unplanned expenses before you pay the rest of your bills. It’s called paying yourself first and some financial experts recommend it be at least 10% of your income. Now, if you’re like most of us, you probably pay everything else and then wait to see what’s left to decide how much to save. Chances are there usually isn’t anything left. So pay yourself first even if it’s a small amount. You’ll discover that you never missed it and you’ll form a good financial habit. You’ll be glad you did. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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We’ve talked about paying attention to what you allow to enter your thoughts and your eyes before. You’ve probably heard the saying “garbage in, garbage out.” The saying describes a progressive pattern. Whatever enters your eyes or ears, moves into your thoughts and then drops into your heart. Eventually, it all comes back out of your heart into your life and touches the lives of others around you. You can guard your heart by first guarding your eyes, ears and thoughts. Start today. Comment here.
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When it comes to handling money properly, there are many ways to avoid making simple mistakes. For example, do you purchase a new car every couple of years? It’s actually cheaper to maintain your current car than it is to purchase a new one. Also, don’t over spend on things like your cell phone package. Ask yourself if you really need some of those options you’re currently signed up for. Think about other items like your cable bill. If you’re out on the road all the time, do you really need the large cable package you currently have? Did you know that studies show people that don’t use credit cards spend less? So consider eliminating or freezing your credit cards in a huge block of ice even if you don’t carry a balance. Last but not least, look for ways to have fun for little or no money. Get creative and spend less. You’ll be glad you did. Call us if you need help. Comment here.
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I get a real charge out of watching new drivers enter the truck driving industry. Now, not all of these drivers are young in age and many of them have very little idea what this career holds for them. There are things one can only learn from the school of hard knocks. Time spent behind the wheel alone can provide drivers with the opportunity to become mature in the world of trucking. You will be faced with challenges that will require you to make the right decision at just the right time. Are you prepared for that? Let us help. Comment here.
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Everyone has things to be thankful for. However if we’ve never developed the habit of gratitude, we may neglect to notice them because we’ve set our sight on something else. Regrettably, we can take a lot for granted. Cultivating gratitude can improve our attitude, change how others feel about us and even reduce stress in our daily life. Gratitude can even impact our future. Even when things do not go well for us, we should even learn to be thankful. I don’t mean that you should be thankful for a blowout, but you can look for what to be thankful for in spite of the blowout; the truck did not turn over. So cultivate gratitude, you just might be thankful for it someday. Comment here.
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Sometimes lessons are hard to learn. In my lifetime I have been to too many seminars, classroom sessions, and other venues where we are expected to learn. It is easy to sit in a classroom and hear the lecture, or watch the video, and agree with the message that is being presented. It is another thing to put into practice what we hear. We go to a safety meeting and see the logic of the safety issue being discussed. Then we get out on the road and do what we’ve always done. Does that make sense? We have not really learned anything until we put it into practice. That’s true about safety on the road and safety on the road of life. Let’s talk about it. Send us a comment. Comment here.
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We’ve all read about or know of people who either made it to the top of their corporation or own their own corporation. Whenever I would read about someone like this, I wish I could try having it all for awhile. The fact is it is not possible to “try it.” It requires a lifetime of hard work and sacrifice. People at all levels have literally given their all to reach their goals and end up with disappointed expectations and empty victory. I imagine they’ll eventually wonder when they look at what they’ve amassed and ask, “Is this all there is?” Balance is wisdom. Riches and power can provide comfort, but they cannot guarantee happiness or satisfaction. The pursuit of riches is not all there is to life. There is much more. We can help. Comment here.
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